I haven’t done TMI Tuesday in a while, and since I liked the questions this week, I thought I’d post them here for you. Actually, I’ve only read down to the second question so far, so forgive my spotanaiety when I answer, k? K. Here goes:
1. What do you feel is the difference between sexy and erotic?
For me, sexy is like, something “visual”, something immediate… Something I can experience quickly and just as quickly, know that I think it’s sexy. Erotic is a little bit deeper. Eroticism makes me *feel* something. Makes my pussy wet. Makes me not just think about fucking, but *want* to fuck. See the difference? 
2. Do you believe there is one right person (i.e. soul mate) for you out there in the world, or that there can be many different potential mates that you could live blissfully with?
I’m totally a believer of the “many soul mates” school of thought. I mean, I’ve had 3 of them in my real life already! Okay, so one of them is my gay best friend, but I could totally have a sexless but happy marriage with him! *Giggles* And that’s not to mention how many guys I’ve found that connection on the phone with… But I digress. For me, there could be many. It depends on the personality, though…. I think the more rigid and closed minded you are, the harder it is to find more than that special *one*.
3. Do you need to hear “I love you” or similar words on a regular basis from your partner?
Ummm? I’d like to! But it’s definitely not a requirement. Actions speak much louder than words to me, so I’d rather have you prove it than say it all day long.
4. What feeling do you have the most difficulty expressing?
Ooh, this is a hard one! I guess…fear? I never like to admit I’m scared! We *are* talking real life fear, not just scary movies, right? Lol… But yeah~fear. Every other emotion is pretty easy for me.
5. What is worse – physical, mental or cyber cheating?
Wow! Did they pull this question out of my blog or something? *Giggles* We’ve already been over this below, but I’ll reiterate: The only cheating that counts to me is mental cheating. And by that I mean *emotional* cheating. You can cheat physically without loving anyone but me, and you can “cyber cheat” online or with phone sex, and still love only me… But if you start emotionally cheating, that means it’s probably over between us. Actually, I should specify….even emotional cheating isn’t so bad if you own up to it. Then we can just break up and move on. It only gets bad if you want to drag it out and lie about it for ages. THAT would make me have to hate you forever. Lol…
Bonus (as in optional): The Kinsey scale attempts to describe a person’s sexual history or episodes of their sexual activity at a given time. It uses a scale from 0, meaning exclusively heterosexual, to 6, meaning exclusively homosexual. Where are you – TODAY – on the scale?
Hmmm….today? I’d say a solid 2. Maybe 3. But I hate to say I’m completely bisexual cause I couldn’t survive on pussy alone… *Blushes* Even if I was like, long term dating a girl (which I could *totally* do! I just never have) she’d have to be bi too so we could both have cock once in a while. Otherwise I’d lose my fucking mind! Lol!
And there we are! The end of my TMI. I think the questions were too easy this week though…. That was all stuff I don’t mind telling on a regular basis! *Giggles* Ah, well. Anyway. It’s just after 3am on Monday night/Tuesday morning. I’m actually available and taking calls now, and I probably will be till 5 or 6am EST. So call me tonight! Remember, Tuesday is my Princess Day, so after tonight, I won’t be back till Wednesday. Bye for now!
PS Thanks SO much to my sweetheart Gun and Mr Anonymous for all the yummy wishlist prezzies! I adore every single one of them and I *heart* you for always thinking of me! Bye again!
This is a pretty interesting subject for me. Not so much because I need to ponder my opinion on it or anything… More because it’s not something I like to bring up in case there are any of you guys out there who would start feeling guilty if I started listing out pros and cons. *Smiles* Actually, given the unreliability of my availablity lately, most of you guys who are patient enough to wait for me to log on have been calling me for years! (And that’s a fact that doesn’t go unnoticed, cause I SO appreciate that you do!! Really!) Anyway, I figure we’ve known eachother for long enough by now that if you have any “demons” about this subject, you’ve wrestled them a *long* time ago.
Anyway. This whole thing is something I’ve been discussing with pussy boy lately…who is, in case you wondered, the main reason for my weirdo schedule lately. And that’s a funny thing, actually, because just this past week I decided that he didn’t deserve ANY pussy EVER again. Well~he can still have it, he just can’t ever be inside it, because his inadequacy in the stamina department is really just embarrassing. The funny part, is that he agrees with me! I know, right? But seriously. He does. He thanks me for it. Lol… And instead of being smart and saving himself from my relentless teasing, he needs to send me lots of money and talk to me every night I’m available for hours and hours and hours. Even though I’ve cut him off of pussy for the rest of his life. Even though I’m making him work up to two or more weeks of chastity before he can even think of masturbation. Along with countless other humiliating tasks I won’t get into here. *Giggles* I totally own him, and I did it by taking sex away, not giving it! See? Told you it was funny.
But it’s a good thing, because now that he’s so pliable and easy to control, I get to have all kinds of deep conversations with him on just about anything. And one of these convos earlier this week just happened to be~you guessed it! Whether or not phone sex is cheating. My thoughts on this are pretty simple, so I’ll explain.
See, I have this theory. Every guy needs porn, and every guy uses porn. Every guy, everywhere, married or single, no exceptions. For some guys, porn is a Playboy magazine (or the equivalent.) I prefer Hustler, but still. Some guys like strip clubs. Some guys visit escorts, LOTS of guys find porn on the internet, and most guys have a few porn DVD’s stashed somewhere in their place. And some guys like phone sex.
But see? It’s all porn! So what, just because there’s talking involved with phone sex, does that make it so different? I don’t know, I guess I get that, but to be honest, I think that guys who get more turned on by talking? Are SO much more evolved than the average man who only needs visual stimulation. That’s not to say that I don’t enjoy a good porn magazine…I’m sure you do too! It’s just, I think visual porn has it’s place. Magazines and movies and stuff like that are like….foreplay at best. I think orgasms are SO much better when you actually get to interact with someone, don’t you think? They always say the brain is the most powerful sexual organ, after all.
And then of course, there’s also the reasons listed out by my good friend Abby, whose blog post inspired pussy boy to start questioning this subject in the first place. And who knew! She actually linked here to *me* after all of her musings on the subject! (And then she didn’t even tell me! I would never have known if pussy boy hadn’t shown it to me. BAD Abby! *Giggles*)
So no, I don’t think phone sex is cheating. But I also think that women shouldn’t care! Women should just understand that men are sexual creatures, and they’re going to have porn no matter what. If you’re the type of woman who’s bothered by thinking of your guy jerking off without you, just ignore it! Don’t go snooping through his stuff, or his computer history. Don’t go opening credit card statements that aren’t your business. Make it just like the military~don’t ask, don’t tell. And really…wouldn’t the average wife or girlfriend be happier in general if they don’t ever find out that you prefer barely legal girls like yours truly? Or that you’d really love to cum all over a girl’s face? Or that you like anal sex, or need to be tied up, or *insert your favorite naughty fantasy here*? Yeah. See what I mean?
I don’t know if I think this way because I’m enlightened, or because I’m just as horny as you are all day long. Lol! I just think orgasms are good, and people shouldn’t have to exist being forced to sneak around and feel like they’re dirty just because they wanna get off, you know? And phone sex orgasms are PRETTY fucking awesome, IMO. Porn exists so people don’t have to cheat. I think, if your mate isn’t using porn? THAT’S when you need to be worried…. Lol….
*Sighs* Anyway. Off my soapbox now. Oh~and hopefully you weren’t too bothered by my choice of subjects tonight. I just had some thoughts and I had to share them~it couldn’t be helped. You didn’t mind THAT much, did you? It’s pretty late now (just after 3am) and this is the first night this week that I’m not being monopolized by my pussy boy till 6am! So I’d better get my cute lil ass on the phone. I should be taking calls till 6am EST or so, so if you’ve been missing me? Call me tonight! I haven’t cum with a REAL man in like, forever, so I’m looking forward to it! If you don’t catch me tonight, look for me on Saturday after 11pm.
Bye for now!
PS I still have to do thank you’s for prezzies and favorite callers and feedback… No, I haven’t forgotten! I just need to wait till the next time I post to do it cause I need to log on before it gets too late. Check back soon for that stuff…I promise I won’t make you wait too long.
I was watching some show on TV the other day…don’t ask me which one, cause I honestly can’t recall. Maybe it was Law And Order…but don’t quote me on that. Anyway, so there’s two people driving in a car, and the woman in the passenger seat is talking about people who are always late, and how it must mean that they’re lazy. And the guy driving the car totally disagreed. He said (and I’m paraphrasing here~if I can’t remember what show, you could hardly expect me to remember the quote verbatim, right? *Giggles*)
Anyway, he says that chronic lateness has nothing to do with laziness. Supposedly, it’s actually a trait of people with control issues. They want to control everyone elses schedule, cause they want the world to revolve around them. For example, “I’m in charge even when I’m NOT around, cause by being late, I’m making you wait for me.” Which, if you hadn’t noticed, is so totally me.
Now when I first heard that, it kind of rang true for me in a bad way. Like, doesn’t that sound so bad and passive aggressive? But after I thought on it for a little while…I decided that it’s just another symptom of this latent fem domme that pussy boy always says I have inside me. Control issues….and wanting the world to revolve around me…and of course, the always being late thing I’ve been struggling with. That’s total Princess behavior, don’t you think? Lol…
Really, even if it’s not, that’s the way I’m going to rationalize it. I like “Princess mindset” MUCH better than “brat with control issues.” *Giggles* Still though~I’m going to keep working on the time thing. It bugs the hell out of me even if you guys are sweet enough to keep dealing with it.
It’s just after 1AM EST, and I should be taking calls within the hour. Call me tonight if you feel like playing with me! Cause remember, after tonight, I won’t be back till after my Princess Day (Wednesday.) Bye for now!
I know, it’s still not a real blog post…but at the request of my sweetheart Gun, I guess it’s time for me to post a new quiz. So here it is!
You Are 87% Real |
 There’s hardly a person on this earth more real than you are. You have no problem showing people who you are, flaws and all. For you, there couldn’t be any other way. Because it’s way too stressful to live an inauthentic life. You’re very comfortable with yourself. And because of this, you’re able to live an exciting, interesting, and challenging life. |
So. Like I already knew (and like I’ve told you guys at least a million times! Lol…) I’m a pretty real girl. I would even go so far as to say…I’m a TOTALLY real girl. I don’t know. I mean, in real life? I’m more like 98% real. But I run into some issues when I’m writing here. Like…I don’t want to be too real, for security’s sake, AND because I feel like you guys don’t come here to read un-sexy stuff. Like if I tell you too much stuff about my normal girl life, maybe I won’t be the “ideal” fantasy girl anymore. You know?
Mostly…I just edit and leave out the boring normal type stuff, and assume that you’re all okay with the limited personal stuff I choose to share. And I’m right about that, right??? Lol…. I mean…you all know I’m a total GFE phone sex girl….so if you weren’t okay with the “normal” stuff I write, then you wouldn’t be reading and or calling anymore. Right?
You can comment and answer if you want, but you don’t have to. Cause even if you don’t, that’s my story, and I’m sticking to it. *Giggles* I just wanted to explain why sometimes I’m a little bit vague… And why lately, I don’t write as much as I used to. Just so you know, if we’re talking mentally? I’m the BEST blog writer you’ve ever known! I draft posts in my head all day every day! In the bathtub…in my car….on my way to sleep…while I’m talking to my Mommy…lol… While I’m doing any number of things! But then, because life happens, and all kinds of other stuff….most of my posts don’t ever get posted. *Sighs* No worries, though~I’ve put it back on my to do list for August that I wanna blog at least twice a week again from now on. And hopefully, I’ll stay on top of my to do list. For once.
Didn’t I just get done saying that this wasn’t a real post?? I meant it! Truly I did…and then I got carried away. It’s almost 6am EST now (I know! Late even for me, isn’t it?) But I should be available and taking calls till like….8am EST. So call me! I wish I could tell you some specific fantasies that I’m in the mood for, but I can’t think of anything. Which means…that I’m up for just about anything! *Giggles* As long as it’s phone sex, and it ends with my tight lil pussy cumming…I’m totally down!
Remember, if you don’t catch me tonight, look for me Saturday after 11pm EST. Bye for now!
PS LOTS of you have been spoiling me with yummy cash treats lately… Specifically my sweetheart Gun, my lil slut Chase, and of course my pussyboy. BIG cash treats, too! Good boys! TY guys!!
Hi guys! I hope you’re having a great week so far! And I hope you’re not missing me too much, either. Wait~actually, I hope you ARE missing me, but I hope you’re not mad at me for being impossibly late yet again tonight. *Sighs* It’s just after 1am, and if you’ve been keeping up with my lil Twitter box (if it’s updating, it’s been tempermental lately) you already know that I won’t be available on Niteflirt till 1:30AM or so. I know, I know…my “time issues” are still a problem. But seriously. I’m working on it. *Giggles*
BUT, to make it up to you…I thought I’d share a few of these things with you to put a smile on your face while you wait for me to get my ass online. They’re definitely….sex related humor. Lol… The last two are even phone sex related. I might get lucky and be able to resize them so you can see them, but you may have to actually click on the links. One sec…
Okay, the preview windows won’t fit. So if you want a good laugh, click on the links below…
*Giggles* Take a look when you have time! I swear YouTube is SO addictive! Anyway, like I said…I should be available and taking calls for a few hours tonight, from 1:30 or so till 5 or 5:30 AM. So call me tonight!! I wanna make my tight lil pussy cum before I go to sleep! If you don’t catch me tonight (Wednesday), look for me on Thursday after 11 or Midnight. Bye for now!
